Why you NEED The HR Excellence Coach!
The majority of the population has no idea what The HR Excellence Coach does. Not only that, but they have no idea what kind of person would hire The HR Excellence Coach. So, here’s where I can help….
1. You’re stuck
So, you have this decision to make. Either to get married, leave your crappy relationship, change careers, make a geographical change or go after that big, badass dream of yours. You’re confused with the voices in your head. The one that tells you it’s too risky versus the one that says “go for it!” You’re swimming with thoughts of “what if I do it and it doesn’t work” versus “what if I don’t do it and I regret it”. And you want a guarantee of the outcome.
The HR Excellence Coach will look at their magic crystal ball and tell you the answer – No, not really!
What The HR Excellence Coach will do is, help you dig underneath the thoughts and feelings of “what if’s” and help you discover what’s important to you about this decision, and explore those voices. Which one is the scared and playing-it-safe inner-critic, and which one is your bedazzling inner intuitive voice.
The HR Excellence Coach won’t make the decision for you, but help you clarify and sort it all out.
2. You’re lost
Maybe you don’t know what your “thing” is. Maybe you don’t love your job, or you feel like you’re living your life like a sloth on auto-pilot (did you know there is such a thing?). Maybe you just got out of Uni and don’t love the field you studied in. Or, your routine as a parent/spouse is leaving you unfulfilled. And don’t get me started on the guilt you feel about this.
Rest assured you are totally normal and there are boatloads of people just like you. I believe everyone is lost before a big breakthrough.
The HR Excellence Coach will help you sort out what your true personal values are (you may have NO idea, or may think that your values are what you inherited from your family or other institution) and when you discover those, you can get clear on what is important to you. That way you can decide how you want to honour those values and a really awesome side-effect is you being fulfilled. Imagine that!
3. You’re unhappy
If you’re unhappy, you need a change. Or you need to change. Or maybe you just had a breakdown. Or you’re about to lose your damn mind.
Either way, The HR Excellence Coach can help you through this. I will help you pinpoint why you’re unhappy (many times you think it’s one thing, and it’s another) and help you make changes. This also goes back to your values. The majority of the time, people that are unhappy aren’t living their personal values, and the values that are true to them are being stepped on or suffocated.
Example: You don’t love your job. Or even if it’s your job as a stay at home mum. What’s making you unhappy isn’t your boss or your kids. Somewhere inside of you might be a value around freedom. Or purpose driven work. Or creativity. And if you’re not getting it, your soul and spirit will suffer.
4. You’re happy
So, why would someone need The HR Excellence Coach if they’re already happy? It’s a perfect time for coaching. When you’re happy and you love where you are, you’re more likely to be open to growth. You’re more likely to wonder what else is out there for you to reach out and grab, and be more willing to do the work. I’ve met many people who are unhappy that are willing to do the work as well, but being happy can be a great motivator as well.
5. You just got out of a relationship
You’re brokenhearted, or maybe not-so-much. Either way, you’re starting over. And that’s a beautiful place to be. You have every reason to be excited about beginning again on your terms.
But, what are your terms?
You might not know. Working with The HR Excellence Coach will help you clarify what you want, why it’s important to you, what’s possible for you (hint: everything), and how you can get it. You can brainstorm, strategize, explore and clarify.
6. You’re comfortable
You have your routine. Your comfort zone. It starts here and it ends there. Some would refer to this as the ‘grey zone’. Any variation of it and you squirm.
We’ve all been there. It might be one part of your life, or it might be all parts of your life. And yes, life should be comfortable, but are you having FUN? And some kind of excitement?
The HR Excellence Coach will invite you, hold your hand and push you to step out of your comfort zone. I will challenge you to make new magic this way.
7. You’re scared
Let’s face it: We’re all scared. We’re afraid of the dark, afraid of looking stupid, afraid of failure, afraid of success, afraid of what people will think, afraid of what they’ll say, afraid of being alone, afraid of being seen, afraid of not being seen, afraid of leaving a relationship,
The HR Excellence Coach will hold the space for you to name your fears, give you tools to take action despite them, and change the way you look and feel about your fears. You’ll still have fears, you’ll just be able to stand up to them with more courage.
8. You’re grieving a loss
Are you finding it hard to reconnect with the parts of your life that once made you happy? Small wonder. When you lose a loved one; the love of your life, your partner, your friend, your family members, and your beloved pets.
Concerned friends and family tend to see you in only one role: a grieving person. That not only cuts you off from the kinds of interactions that might prove restorative, but it distorts the relationships that you ordinarily count on for comfort. Most troubling, the constant expressions of sympathy can mute your own internal cues, the ones you draw on during difficult times to restore balance, optimism and joy to your life.
How Can The HR Excellence Coach Help?
I help you to reconnect with your strengths, your coping strategies and the relationships, activities and inner resources that give your life meaning. I make no assumptions about what you feel, think or want. I come with an open mind and an ear deeply tuned to the one person who knows best how to get your life moving again: YOU! Together, we explore your feelings, your strengths, your untapped capabilities, and the thoughts that may be slowing your healing. In tandem, we help you identify what you need to overcome and the steps that will restore momentum back into your life.
You May Be Asking: How Does Coaching Differ From Therapy or Counselling?
Classic therapy or counselling is a process that looks backward to help you understand how you got to this moment. Coaching looks to the future to help you create something new. Coaching is designed to take you from one point to the next. You pick the destination, then in partnership with The HR Excellence Coach you move from where you are now to where you want to be.
9. You’re done with therapy
And thinking, “Now what?”. Therapy and coaching can make a great marriage together and coaching after therapy can be a perfect self-discovery journey. Many therapists cross over into coaching, and if you find someone that does that for you, great. But, if you feel your relationship with your therapist has run its course, finding The HR Excellence Coach that will help you with your “now what?” inquiry may be just what you need.
Therapy will help you uncover and heal your issues from the past. This is essential for being able to forgive and move past hurtful experiences. The HR Excellence Coach generally doesn’t need to know your stories of your past. I’m interested in where you are now and where you want to go.
10. Why you NEED The HR Excellence Coach!
One thing is true about all of these things. No matter what you feel, you are not broken, nor do you need “fixing”. You are naturally creative, resourceful and whole when it comes to you and your life. And The HR Excellence Coach can help you tap into that.
Also, The HR Excellence Coach isn’t magic bullets, or magic pills. The solution always resides inside of you, but many times we are so fearful, we can’t hear or see it. Coaching can help you look at any situation from a different perspective to get you out of that paralyzing fear.
My hope for you and all people is that when they are ready, they get to work with The HR Excellence Coach. You don’t have to spend your life savings on a coach, there are ways to get coaching inexpensively. All coaches have different styles. Do your research, listen to your heart and find the right one for you.
* Opt for Excellence can help you see the opportunities ahead of you.
* Doesn’t it make sense to make your dreams a reality?
* How would it feel to have the success you desire?
* Do you like the sound of transforming your life?
Be Outstanding! Be Passionate! Be Transformational!
I am looking forward to helping you to ‘Opt For Excellence’ in your personal and professional life – contact us TODAY to book your discovery call: 07736 167450
Thank you for taking the time to read my blog.
Rachel Wade, Certified Practitioner of NLP, Time Line Therapy®, Hypnotherapy and NLP Coach
The HR Excellence Coach – For Life, Career & Business
Opt for Excellence – OPPORTUNITY. PURPOSE. TRANSFORMATION