We’ve all been there, I know that I thought I knew my ‘why’ but with the many challenges and journey as a business owner with it’s twists and turns, this can often phase into the background and come into question when things feel that they’re not going right. And particular it’s good to get back to your ‘why’ and your ‘purpose’ to live and work in a harmonious happy and healthy way.
If you’ve ever faced a significant crisis in your life you’ll have experienced the power of ‘purpose’ to tap reserves of energy, determination and courage you likely didn’t know you had. Your mission was clear. Your goal was compelling. Your focus was laser-like. Your potential was tapped.
The power of purpose is similar to the energy of light focused through a magnifying glass. Diffused light has little use, but when its energy is concentrated, as through a magnifying glass, that same light can set fire to paper. Focus its energy even more, as with a laser beam, and it has the power to cut through steel. Likewise, a clear sense of ‘purpose’ enables you to focus your efforts on what matters most, compelling you to take risks and push forward regardless of the odds or obstacles.
The great philosophers once said, ‘He who has a why can endure any how.’ Knowing your why is an important first step in figuring out how to achieve the goals that excite you and create a life you enjoy living (versus merely surviving!). Indeed, only when you know your ‘why’ will you find the courage to take the risks needed to get ahead, stay motivated when the chips are down, and move your life onto an entirely new, more challenging, and more rewarding trajectory.
While there’s no one pathway for discovering your life’s purpose, there are many ways you can gain deeper insight into yourself, and a larger perspective on what it is that you have to offer the world.
Think about the four questions below to help find the ‘sweet spot’ that sits in the intersection between what you care about, what you can contribute, and what will be valued most.
1. What makes you come alive?
The word inspire comes from the Latin, meaning “to breathe life into.” Accordingly when you are working toward things that inspire you, it literally makes you feel more alive. What makes you come alive isn’t referring to taking your dream holiday or watching your favorite team play football (unless you’re called to a career as a football coach or commentator!). It’s bigger than that. I’m talking about a why that moves up the food chain from being about you, to being about something bigger than you. It’s about connecting with what you’re passionate about, knowing that when you focus your attention on endeavors that put a fire in your belly, you grow your impact and influence in ways that nothing else can.
This is about you connecting to a cause that’s bigger than you are, but which is also congruent with who you are what you care about.
2. What are your innate strengths?
Our element is the point at which natural talent and skill meets personal passion. When people are in their element they are not only more productive, but they add more value and enjoy more personal and professional fulfilment.
What are the things you’ve always been good at (sometimes wondering why others find it so hard?) Are you able to see patterns and opportunities amidst complexity? Are you creative, naturally adept at coming up with ‘outside the box’ solutions? Are you a natural born rebel with an innate ability to identify where the status quo is in need of a makeover? Are you brilliant in the details, naturally good at executing projects with a precision that some find tedious? Or are you a naturally gifted communicator, diplomat, networker, leader, problem solver or change agent?
Of course, you can also be passionate about things you have no natural talent for, and talented at things for which you hold little passion. However experience has shown me that we rarely aspire toward ambitions we have no natural talent to achieve.
3. Where do you add the greatest value?
Doing work that you’re good at, but which you loathe, is not a pathway to fulfilment. That said, knowing your greatest strengths and where you can add the most value through the application of your education, skills, knowledge and experience can help you focus on the opportunities, roles and career paths where you are most likely to succeed and therefore find the greatest sense of accomplishment and contribution.
Too often we undervalue our strengths, skills and the expertise we naturally acquire over time. If you reframe the concept of adding value through the lens of solving problems, you can ask yourself what you’re well placed and equipped to help solve in your workplace, career, organisation or industry.
You can also ask yourself what problems you really enjoy solving, and what problems you feel passionate about trying to solve. You’ll then be more successful at focusing on your natural strengths and those things you’re innately good at than trying to bolster or eliminate your weaknesses.
4. How will you measure your life?
People who don’t stand for something, can easily fall for anything. Deciding how you want to measure your life means making a stand for something and then living your life in alignment with it.
Ultimately, living with ‘purpose’ means focusing on things that matter most. Ironically, the things that matter most are rarely “things.” That said, while some people are in a position to trade the security of a regular salary in order to pursue a passion, many simply can’t at least not in the short term or without violating core values (like paying off debt or providing for their family).
But following the money and following your heart don’t have to be mutually exclusive. By shifting the lens in which you view what you are doing now, you can profoundly shift your experience of it. No matter what your job, you can draw meaning from it and find greater ‘purpose’ through how you do what you do. If you don’t think you’re the kind of person you’d want to work with, then consider that it may not be because of the job you do each day, but your attitude toward it.
Knowing your ‘purpose’ may compel you to take on challenges that will stretch you as much as they inspire you. When you’re powered by a clear ‘purpose’, there is little you cannot do!
If you’re struggling to work out your ‘why’ and ‘purpose’ on your own, seek professional help from a coach to help you. A qualified professional coach will help you define your ‘why and ‘purpose’ allowing you to move forward and achieve success.
* Opt for Excellence can help you see the opportunities ahead of you.
* Doesn’t it make sense to make your dreams a reality?
* How would it feel to have the success you desire?
* Do you like the sound of transforming your life?
Be Outstanding! Be Passionate! Be Transformational!
We are looking forward to helping you to ‘Opt For Excellence’ in your personal and professional life – contact us TODAY to book your complimentary discovery call: 07736 167450
Thank you for taking the time to read my blog.
Rachel Wade, The HR Excellence Coach – For Life, Career & Business
Practitioner of NLP, Time Line Therapy®, Hypnotherapy and NLP Coach
Opt for Excellence – OPPORTUNITY. PURPOSE. TRANSFORMATION